Monday, April 20, 2009

LISA RINNA—A real triple threat! (Or what her actions really say about ourselves.)





What is it about a pretty woman that gets us all ruffled? Is it because we think we’re not good enough? Or is it because the pretty woman already knows she is and that’s what really drives us crazy!

With Lisa Rinna’s recent publicity about posing in Playboy, it’s interesting to watch the reactions of those interviewing her. The men, well they’re easy to predict, but the women—they’re a different story.

It seems those who have beauty and charm really do get most of the attention –that’s true. But with so many girls, ladies, and women on TV, in magazines, and in the public eye constantly showing of their wares, why do we care about some more than others?

No matter how much make-up, clothes, liposuction or plastic surgery someone gets, we still gravitate towards those who are more genuine, realistic, and approachable. This is because we are made of an invisible energy which exudes our true feelings and outlook, especially our own attitude towards life. But when we women receive this genuine approachability in a beautiful package, we sometimes get confused, afraid, and threatened.

This is especially true if we don’t we feel good about ourselves. Automatically, we put up our shield and then attack the other person for having the courage to be beautiful. Yet, in all actuality, this only sabotages our ability to receive our worth, inner peace, and beauty! It is our own wasteful thinking that interferes with our belief process.

You see, we are perfect, just the way we are. We are pretty , with and without makeup, and we deserve and can have happiness and joy whenever we want—we just need to be able to receive our own self-worth. When we can see ourselves in a good light, we will see it in others, and they, like Lisa, will become the example of “look’s what’s possible!”

But first, we have to stop criticizing ourselves for what we think we should be. Projection is dangerous, and it only leads to misery and despair. And judgment blocks the natural flow of receiving energy. So when we see ourselves as less than perfect, then we will experience it. However, when we see ourselves as great, then we will attract great people, experiences, and opportunities! And when we see others take a bite out this apple, we can either rally for them and let them be our motivating example, or condemn them for trying. (See which shoe fits.)

It’s easy to distance ourselves from an airheaded pin-up or drug-crazed beauty, enjoying what they wear and what they do (and they whom they do it with!) But when we are faced with subconscious feelings of inadequacy we must ask ourselves why we allow such feelings to come up.
We must feel confident that our thoughts are really our lessons in truth—for deciding whether or not we want to continue having them.

Looking a Lisa Rinna brings back good memories of when I was young, outrageous, and decorated in pumps. Everywhere I went, I turned heads in my sequined tube tops and “Dancing Queen” attire. But there were always those girls, who were also pretty and high-glossed, that were mean, cruel, and threatened by my kind and friendly personality.

Lisa Rinna is a victor. Not just in the dancing or celebrity game, but in life. She takes charge of her mind by being genuine, and she sees life from a higher and fearless perspective. And by seeing the best in herself, in her fun, outgoing, yellow aura way, she instills an automatic vitality that pours into her being as joy and self-worth.

From my clairvoyant perspective, she rallies against injustice—the unfairness of being typecast or compartmentalized—not just for herself, but for all people, especially women. She is a free sprit, unafraid, open, and willing to play along the game of life. This is what makes her attractive, beautiful and vibrant. And because she recognizes these gifts in herself, she becomes it. And boy does she do it well!

1 comment:

DrDeb said...

Hi Cindy, I think your posting is spot on! As far as I can tell, you really hit on all the major points of this issue in one article -- well done!

Thanks,
Dr. Deb

Hay House, Inc.